Friday, April 21, 2017

When Was the Last Time .... faced your fashion fears?

The other day I saw a blog post with a really short black and red mini skirt I really liked.  
Showing so much of my body isn't my thing in blog posts but she looked confident.
However, the moment I saw it, I started to think about how this blogger "risked" being mocked about her legs.
So I started to have a look at the comments and did not find any negative one.
And I felt happy and also a bit ashamed that I did not find any negative one.
Are her readers so positiveand supportive  or was that my insecurity about my own legs that I reflected and made prejudices about negative comments? So I started to think about confidence.

According to  confidence means the following:

"1. full trust; belief in the powers, trustworthiness, or reliability of a person or thing:
We have every confidence in their ability to succeed.
2. belief in oneself and one's powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance:
His lack of confidence defeated him.
3. certitude; assurance:
He described the situation with such confidence that the audiencebelieved him completely."

And I found that I sometimes lack the confidence to wear something I like.
But why is that so? Why do we even bother thinking about what others will say about our outfits? 
Did that really happen to us before or is it just a prejudice it will happen?

So ask yourself the question: When was the last time I stepped out of my comfort zone and wore something really bold?
And when was the last time I did not wear something I liked because I thought others would judge me?

And if the answer is "A long time ago." to the first one and "Recently." to the second one, check your wardrobe and choose someting bold for tomorrow morning. And wear it. :)

And here are some nice mini skirts as inspiration for those like me, fearing to wear them. :)Mini Skirts

And don't forget, size is just a number. 
If you are interested in some help from stylists who really listen, check out dia's homepage. Hope you will find something nice. 
And don't forget to embrace your individuality.

Thanks fo stopping by.



Mini Skirts by mspippistyle featuring fitted skirts

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